Tuesday, 15 January 2019

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Tips On Social Media Profile For Budding Athletes


 
For college selections coaches scout on social media. Having an athletic profile on social media would definitely help your child get noticed. Once the kid is in junior high, you should create a social media profile for her, typically a FB page with Instagram and Twitter to boost it.

Here are a few tips to help you build a profile that gets noticed and helps get your kid in the right team and of course, the right college.

1.     Make it formal

Remember the social media profile is for colleges and coaches. Never post objectionable stuff. Team fun is good, it might get you a lot of likes and boost your profile, but making fun of someone, publicly condemning a team action, and anything that might seem inappropriate on your college application, would be inappropriate on your athletic profile too.

2.     Be in control of your account

You wouldn’t want your friends to post something embarrassing that is visible publicly. Tweak default settings to control what shows up on your page. Here’s how you can do it – go to Facebook “Settings”, click “Timeline and Tagging”, on the option “Review posts you’re tagged in before the post appears on your timeline?”, click “Enabled”.

3.     Pick your colleges/teams

Make a list of the colleges you are going to target. Follow those colleges/teams. Like their posts. Be there.

4.     Market yourself

Make sure you highlight your achievements. Also highlight your personal examples/stories of great teamwork, leadership and motivation.

5.     Talk team

Don’t let your social media page become a reflection of the narcissist you. Talk about the team, with your achievements being highlighted. Be humble and thank your coach and the team every time you achieve something exceptional. Arrogance will not really get you a place in the team.

6.     Post self-goals

Make personal goals for sport-specific skills. For instance, if you are playing football, running can be an essential skill. Time your running. Make a goal that betters it. Work towards that goal and post when you achieve it. Get it timed by your coach or someone professional. This works both ways. While you better your skills, you also show that you are focused and hard-working.

7.     References

Try and get connected to people who can be an asset to the profile. Also, have references on your page. Adds credibility.

8.     Be consistent and frequent.



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Wednesday, 9 January 2019

Published Wednesday, January 09, 2019 with 0 comment

Focus on The Positives of Sports Parenting





Sports parenting can be challenging and demanding. You need to commit extra of everything – extra time, extra expenses, extra effort, and not to mention extra care about diet, exercise, routine, health, studies everything. But you have to admit, it does bring you that extra bit of joy. It’s something to see your little one play, compete and of course win.

But here’s the thing, as a parent you shouldn’t get too possessed with the child’s sporting activity. Being over involved or obsessing over a sports career or college scholarship will just make it more taxing for you. While there needs to be some sort of justification to the ‘extra’ bit you are doing, especially on the finances front, and it’s understandable if you get frustrated, but frustration, pressure or obsession will not work. It might rather do more damage than good. If you are keen on providing a great sporting exposure to your child, a positive frame of mind and giving a freehand will do the magic. And it’s all the more important for you too. Here are a few points that will help you focus on the positives of sports parenting.

1.     Enjoy the bit that your child is playing, not the bit that she is winning. Kids playing sports are more disciplined and develop inherent character traits that you cannot necessarily otherwise imbibe in kids.

2.     There’s a beautiful definition of success – ‘if you are happy, you are successful’. Don’t be bothered by other parents who flaunt their child’s achievements. It’s shallow. Focus on happiness and learning instead. That is what will make your child have a natural flare in whatever she chooses to do. Your child will be happy, nothing else matters.

3.     Don’t focus on winning, focus on life instead. Is your child becoming a better person? Is she learning empathy, kindness and teamwork? Is she getting mature enough to be able to take her victories humbly and losses gracefully? Is she learning the value of hard-work? Those are the things that will make your little one a winner in life, and that’s where your focus should be.

4.     Show respect to the coaches. For one, they are doing a part of your job by teaching her life skills that will help in making her the person she becomes.

5.     Don’t try and become the coach yourself. Spare yourself the effort and the energy. It’s the coaches’ job and they’ll do it. Trust.

6.     Socialize with other sports parents. It’s good to have a support group. Discourage competitiveness amongst parents.

7.     Do not criticize other kids, ever. It just brings in negativity you wouldn’t want to deal with.

8.     Don’t forget yourself in the madness of game practices, packing lunches, driving down, volunteering etc. If it’s getting too much, say a no. It’s okay once in a while.

Keep calm and happy parenting!

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