Tuesday, 15 January 2019

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Tips On Social Media Profile For Budding Athletes


 
For college selections coaches scout on social media. Having an athletic profile on social media would definitely help your child get noticed. Once the kid is in junior high, you should create a social media profile for her, typically a FB page with Instagram and Twitter to boost it.

Here are a few tips to help you build a profile that gets noticed and helps get your kid in the right team and of course, the right college.

1.     Make it formal

Remember the social media profile is for colleges and coaches. Never post objectionable stuff. Team fun is good, it might get you a lot of likes and boost your profile, but making fun of someone, publicly condemning a team action, and anything that might seem inappropriate on your college application, would be inappropriate on your athletic profile too.

2.     Be in control of your account

You wouldn’t want your friends to post something embarrassing that is visible publicly. Tweak default settings to control what shows up on your page. Here’s how you can do it – go to Facebook “Settings”, click “Timeline and Tagging”, on the option “Review posts you’re tagged in before the post appears on your timeline?”, click “Enabled”.

3.     Pick your colleges/teams

Make a list of the colleges you are going to target. Follow those colleges/teams. Like their posts. Be there.

4.     Market yourself

Make sure you highlight your achievements. Also highlight your personal examples/stories of great teamwork, leadership and motivation.

5.     Talk team

Don’t let your social media page become a reflection of the narcissist you. Talk about the team, with your achievements being highlighted. Be humble and thank your coach and the team every time you achieve something exceptional. Arrogance will not really get you a place in the team.

6.     Post self-goals

Make personal goals for sport-specific skills. For instance, if you are playing football, running can be an essential skill. Time your running. Make a goal that betters it. Work towards that goal and post when you achieve it. Get it timed by your coach or someone professional. This works both ways. While you better your skills, you also show that you are focused and hard-working.

7.     References

Try and get connected to people who can be an asset to the profile. Also, have references on your page. Adds credibility.

8.     Be consistent and frequent.



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Wednesday, 9 January 2019

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Focus on The Positives of Sports Parenting





Sports parenting can be challenging and demanding. You need to commit extra of everything – extra time, extra expenses, extra effort, and not to mention extra care about diet, exercise, routine, health, studies everything. But you have to admit, it does bring you that extra bit of joy. It’s something to see your little one play, compete and of course win.

But here’s the thing, as a parent you shouldn’t get too possessed with the child’s sporting activity. Being over involved or obsessing over a sports career or college scholarship will just make it more taxing for you. While there needs to be some sort of justification to the ‘extra’ bit you are doing, especially on the finances front, and it’s understandable if you get frustrated, but frustration, pressure or obsession will not work. It might rather do more damage than good. If you are keen on providing a great sporting exposure to your child, a positive frame of mind and giving a freehand will do the magic. And it’s all the more important for you too. Here are a few points that will help you focus on the positives of sports parenting.

1.     Enjoy the bit that your child is playing, not the bit that she is winning. Kids playing sports are more disciplined and develop inherent character traits that you cannot necessarily otherwise imbibe in kids.

2.     There’s a beautiful definition of success – ‘if you are happy, you are successful’. Don’t be bothered by other parents who flaunt their child’s achievements. It’s shallow. Focus on happiness and learning instead. That is what will make your child have a natural flare in whatever she chooses to do. Your child will be happy, nothing else matters.

3.     Don’t focus on winning, focus on life instead. Is your child becoming a better person? Is she learning empathy, kindness and teamwork? Is she getting mature enough to be able to take her victories humbly and losses gracefully? Is she learning the value of hard-work? Those are the things that will make your little one a winner in life, and that’s where your focus should be.

4.     Show respect to the coaches. For one, they are doing a part of your job by teaching her life skills that will help in making her the person she becomes.

5.     Don’t try and become the coach yourself. Spare yourself the effort and the energy. It’s the coaches’ job and they’ll do it. Trust.

6.     Socialize with other sports parents. It’s good to have a support group. Discourage competitiveness amongst parents.

7.     Do not criticize other kids, ever. It just brings in negativity you wouldn’t want to deal with.

8.     Don’t forget yourself in the madness of game practices, packing lunches, driving down, volunteering etc. If it’s getting too much, say a no. It’s okay once in a while.

Keep calm and happy parenting!

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Thursday, 27 December 2018

Published Thursday, December 27, 2018 with 2 comments

New Year Resolutions for Young Athletes




Holidays are over. New year’s party planning is in full swing. Once 2019 arrives, there’ll be yet another clean slate, a new page in the book of life. And if you’ve been having thoughts of how to begin writing on the new page, here’s a little help in getting you started.

Make a goal

Personal –
           
·        I will try and listen more. Most of the time elders speak out of experience, friends speak out of concern and coach speaks out of authority. I will not just hear them out but listen to them, try and understand their point of view, it could help me get a new perspective on things. I will listen more.
·        I will judge less. Before I express an opinion, before I pass a comment, before I name names, before I brand people, I will acknowledge the fact that it’s their way of being, I don’t necessarily have to act on it. Passing judgement, more or less, comes as a consequence of my insecurities. I will address my insecurities rather than judging others for theirs.
·        I will consciously practice empathy. People can sometimes be in a tight spot, a tough situation, a detrimental environment, bad influence or plain helpless. I will try and see things from their perspective as well, before I plain downright discard their viewpoint.
·        Respect. I will respect people, feelings, animals, environment and nature.
·        Acknowledge. I will acknowledge rules, responsibilities, my blessings.
·        I will strive to be happier, each day.

Athletic –

·        I will set game goals. I’ll identify the area I need to work upon. I will discuss this with my coach. I will set small goals and work towards them. I will make such a list and keep a ticking what I have achieved.
·        I will keep a positive approach towards sports. I will be conscious of the fact that playing sports is not all about winning. I will write every lesson I learn from every time I lose.
·        I will not bully, physically, mentally or emotionally. I will rather spend that time on improving myself as a person or athlete.
·        I will eat healthy. I will limit my intake of soda, unhealthy food. I will make my diet chart with my mother’s and coach’s help. I will eat my cheat meal once a week only when I’ve earned it.
·        I will drink plenty of water. I will keep track of my water intake during the day.
·        I will not miss my sports practice. Period.
·        I will work on being a better teammate at what I am now.
·        If I am stressed about something or something seems to be bothering me, I will discuss it with some elder I can trust, either an elder sibling, parent or my coach.
·        I will strive to be a better athlete.


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Published Thursday, December 27, 2018 with 0 comment

Must & Should: Important Lessons for Every Teenager


 
These are tough times. An average teenager fights with so many challenges that it seems more like a struggle for survival than an opportunity to live and explore life. Depression, bullying, sexual issues, substance abuse, body shaming, peer pressure, academic burden, social media and so much more. It’s almost insane out there.

While as a parent my heart goes all out to my teen, I know there isn’t much I can do about it. She will have to learn to deal with all the complexities, all the insanity around her and create her own breathing space. If with my magic ‘momma’ wand I could, I would change the world around for her. But, I can’t. And my heart aches to see her sad. Almost like an answer to my desperate call for help, I stumbled upon this piece of wisdom on the internet. (https://thoughtcatalog.com/rania-naim/). It’s almost like the bible for teenagers. If you are a teenager reading this, you must read though the lines, maybe take a printout and pin it on your wall so that you can read these lines all the time. If you are a parent reading this, make sure your teen reads it too. As a parent, there’s nothing better I can tell my child. God bless the writer of these wise lines.

I am slowly learning that I don’t have to react to everything that bothers me. 

I am slowly learning that reacting to things that upset me gives someone else power over my emotions.

I am slowly learning that the energy it takes to react to every bad thing that happens to you, drains you and stops you from seeing the other good things in life.

I can’t control what others do, but I can control how I respond, how I handle it, how I perceive it, and how much of it I take personally. I am slowly learning that most of the time, these situations say nothing about me and a lot about the other person. 

I am slowly learning that I don’t have to hurt those who hurt me.

I am slowly learning that maybe the ultimate sign of maturity is walking away instead of getting even.


I am slowly learning that I am not going to be everyone’s cup of tea, and I won’t be able to get everyone to treat me the way I want to be treated, and that’s okay. 

I am slowly learning that trying so hard to win everyone is just a waste of time and energy and it fills you with nothing but emptiness.

I am slowly learning that sometimes not saying anything at all says everything. 

I am choosing to be the bigger person.

I am choosing my peace of mind.

Because that’s what I really need. I don’t need more drama. I don’t need people making me feel like I am not good enough. I don’t need fights, arguments and fake connections. I need a more meaningful life. A more satisfying life. A more gratifying life. I need a happier life. And I will get one too!





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Friday, 14 December 2018

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Christmas Gift Ideas for Your Young Athlete



Looking for the perfect Christmas gift for your little sports star? Here are some ideas for your inspiration.

THINGS THAT INSPIRE PLAYING OUTDOORS

Snow Scooter/Sledge




Construction Toys

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Bouncy

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Remote Control Monster Trucks

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Chalk Stencil

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Spy Sets

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Ride Ons

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Sports Fans

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